Everyone is different! Everyone has their own way of of seeing life but I'm sure that every life is round offed to this phrase..'Life is not easy, yet you survive' What we can do is to try focus on to the slightest of happiness that we have in our life and try to overcome our griefs... easier said than done though and people say its difficult to find happiness. Is it really?! Can't we just change our usual routines into happiness and excitement? Just like going to school and college, meeting friends, spending time with family, watching TV, even having breakfast, lunch or dinner?! maybe just to satisfy ourselves internally for the time being I guess that's the way to go, or should I say only way to go. I would love to follow these:
- Make peace with your past so that it does not screw up the present.
- What other people think of you is not your business.
- Time heals almost everything, just give it time.
- The person responsible for your happiness is you yourself.
- Don't compare your life with others as you don't know what their journey is all about.
- Stop thinking too much, sometimes it's good not to know all the answers.
Okay so now to the usual routine. My Eid always starts the day I reach home as that's the only thing that makes me happy these days. I was happy that we won't be going to our village this time and I would be able to relax at home but the first news that I got after reaching was that we are actually going to our village. Going to our village was perhaps a good idea in the end, relaxing under the shade of trees, cool and pure breeze, animals all around you (I liked the donkey best :P) and then not worrying about your cell phone and facebook/twitter or friends or studies. The second day of Eid was fine as I met my four angels. The third day was the best when all the family got together for a dinner and we cousins enjoyed alot :)
Oh here is an interesting story, we did not get any Daweoo seats so had to travel by the normal bus named Sky ways and believe me it was one hell of a torture... the usual drive on any bus is 8 hour if u drive via motor way, but the bus was overloaded ( people were sitting with their own chairs in the middle of the bus :O ) so the driver decided to take the long route...The bus was comforting but the rout was too long..We started our journey at 1300 hours and reached Multan around 0100 hours.. The fun part was when the driver was driving too slow and people were shouting at him and he was counter shouting and saying "Shut up or people will offer morning prayers on the way" :D
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No one even looks at them during the Valima :D |
Lets talk about the fourth day of the eid on which I attended a marriage ceremony after such a long time and I saw what I feared the most, people were more interested in the Dinner than the bride or groom. as soon as the dinner started the most respectable of persons just jumped towards the food items and forgot everything else :D people filled their plates as much as they could and I stood watching and regretting that I attended this ceremony, at last I got the chance and tried to pour some gravy but the person besides me could not wait and put his hand in the bowl....I couldn't eat anything after that :/
Besides every respectable, worthy and good family people were eating like animals there was this one boy around 6 years old, who was roaming around the food, I was not eating anything so I started noticing him unintentionally, he went to the dinner table with everyone and picked up 4-5 nans thinking no one was watching him, he did the same thing again, he did the same for the third time pouring the chicken gravy into a shopping bag and ran outside where his poor family was sitting, a mother with two daughters..... how much struggle people have to do just to fight hunger!!!!
Pakistan Cricket team did really well in the test series and won it in the end but the real test will be the one day series and I hope that Pakistan will, by winning this series tell the world that they are back to take on the challenge of anyone in the world. as I write this the series is leveled 1-1 and the next ODI is to be played on the 18th of november. This Pakistan team can achieve a lot and has the exact potential that is required to be world beaters.
Thanks Allah my sister got what she wanted and that makes me feel so proud! May Allah take care of her, fulfill her dreams and bless her with success in everything! Ameen.
I will have to get myself back to the rehabilitation, last month was a good one for me and I felt better but now after this gap I'm feeling that I will have to start from the scratch! I have got very good marks in two of my subjects but the result of the most important subject is pending and the sings are not good from what's visible!!!
I have written more than I should have, but don't know why I feel like writing, writing and writing but my hands are not helping me :D I'm writing about Potatoes, A historical city of Turkey, Imran Khan and the next part of the great cricketers but that will take lots time as I'm sure I will get tired doing all this work :D
P.S I bought the Vampire Diaries Book series and I'm so excited about it *yaaay* :) !
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